For the first five months they were inseparable. Jack could hardly think of anything but Grace. He didn’t need to look further, he told friends. “She’s the one.”
Now almost three years have passed. Jack still enjoys the comfort and familiarity of being with Grace, but the spark is gone. Grace’s flaws seem more obvious. He’s not sure he finds her as attractive as he once did. And he’s beginning to resent all the time she wants to spend with him.
One night, when she asks if they can define the nature of their relationship, Jack blows up. “We’re together, aren’t we?” he asks angrily. “Why isn’t that enough for you?”
Obviously, Jack isn’t ready for commitment. And it’s unclear if he ever will be…
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Have you ever been in a relationship like this? You need to know something about this couple. There are millions of Jacks walking around today. And Grace isn’t a girl.
Grace is THE Church!"
Recent conversations have fired me up about people's commitment to the local church. There seems to be a movement of some Christians who believe that the local church is no longer necessary for a successful walk with God. It seems to me that some people simply are having an affair with church rather than marrying her!
In an affair there is no comitment required at all. Its all about fulfilling selfish desires of one's flesh. Its the attitude "what can you do for me?". An affair usually doesn't last too long; the people having the affair get tired or bored and move on to the next big thrill or challenge that they see.
A marriage on the other hand is full of 100% committment. Through good days and bad days, when you feel like it or not, when you are attracted to them or not, when you appreciate them and when you don't; a marriage still lasts and the ones in the marriage are still committed to each other.
I believe that too many "Chirstians" are having an affair with the local church. Too many are afraid of being committed to a local church. There is a definite sense of entitlement in my generation. My generation asks questions and makes statements like:
What can this church do for me?
Why is the sound/lights/stage/etc like that?
I don't like the way the pastor is dressed.
The pastor didn't smile at me or shake my hand today.
Why are they always talking about money?
Blah, Blah, Blah
Etc, Etc, Etc.
People like that will leave you the first chance they think they see something better. They will leave the first time they are offended, the first time things didn't go like they thought they should, the first time the pastor or leadership team had to correct them, the first time their seat was taken by someone else, etc!
I THINK SOME OF US HAVE FORGOTTEN WHAT IT'S ALL ABOUT........JESUS AND WHAT HE DID ON THE CROSS!
When you realize that the gospel of Jesus Christ is not just for you it changes everything. Christianity is the only religion that is not for the selfish. Thank God for his grace and what He did for me, but once I get saved it doesn't stop there. I am supposed to, and should want to tell others about my savior and what He did for me on the cross.
I want to encourage you to get planted in the local church! Be committed, sacrifice, volunteer, give it everything you got, invite people to church, watch friends and family members get saved, honor your pastor and treat him like the Man of God that he is!
The Bible gives us a little secret about getting planted in the local church in Psalms 92:13 "Those who are planted in the house of the LORD
Shall flourish in the courts of our God." (NKJV)
I just want to encourage you to stop having an affair with the local church and marry her. The local church needs strong people like YOU! Be committed, volunteer, be faithful, give your money, time, energy, ideas, and resources. Bless your pastor and don't hinder his calling. Don't cause strife or make the "church experience" all about yourself...because it isn't. It's all about JESUS and its our job as Christians to lay down our pride or fear of commitment and tell as many people as we can about HIM!
Today, take a look at your levels of commitment with your local church, examine your heart, and then YOU SHOULD PUT A RING ON IT!
Get Planted Today!
(Exerpt at time taken from: Stop Dating the Church by Joshua Harris.)
Also, shout out to Pastor Carl Lentz for also inspiring this...



